Even When Not Adult

Posted by Coldpepper at 6 February 2012

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Not adultYes, our perversions, kinks, even vanilla sexual desires can run the gambit. But the main thing is that most adults realize that no matterthe play they are engaging in or the sex they might be watching on an adult video, the fare is made by and consumed by adults. Given this realization then all manner of naughtiness is available and permissible, and even women dressing like naughty school girls or men in diapers is common adult video fare…because we all know these are adults doing these things and acting this way.

Controlled explorations of our fetishes, fantasies and even certain dangerous scenarios is really what sexual fantasy is about. This is what some of us pay escorts to perform for us, others search Fetlife for and plenty of us take to adult video wanting. And if those explorations involve a littler age-play so be it. We are adults playing here, tipping our heads to one side and letting our deepest needs dribble out of our heads. We are safe with our partners, masturbating over our downloads, turning our logic down, our libidos up and enjoying a respite with the things we need and not taking the fantasy out in our everyday life.

And even if we do. Even if we are dressing in diapers under our business suits, deliberately not cleaning our room so our boyfriend sees and scolds us for it later and taking all of our free time to fill a coloring book, what does it matter if these fantasies like our consumption of adult video about these fantasies do not get in the way of what we need to do for our work or how we treat our families?

In the face of adult video and adult play if we act adult and take care of ourselves and the people we care for what do our perversions really matter…no matter what the perversion might be? As adults, most of us realize where the fantasy ends, real life intrudes and how to mix the two.

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Are We Getting Off On Not Going Out?

Posted by Coldpepper at 1 February 2012

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There is a lot to be said for voyeurism and masturbation. Like the classic tasty combination of peanut butter and chocolate we have come to enjoy staying-in and looking out, downloading, sneaking some salacious moving images or even thumbnail images across our P.C. so much that the very idea of watching the world from our P.C.-even if it is a world of porn we bring to us-is as sexy as what we are watching.

Power completely in our hands now, what else could we possibly want in and from our adult video watching?

The human animal is a voyeuristic little monkey, that fact is certain. And we have always enjoyed the visual representation of the sex act and the more we can view attractive people consummating the act the happier we are even if we are casual fans of adult video. But these days we can stay in and bring all the adult video we want to us and it is in this process, in the very idea that we can control the feed and feed off of whatever we wish, from the high to the low, the mild to the wild, the specific to the general dirty film, that is really sexy to us. That very face that we can stipulate, regulate and masturbate over the adult video content available to us sees of voyeurism at a new level.

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Now, we can have what adult video we like, when we like it, to whatever device we want to like it upon. Complete control is ours and for that voyeuristic sensibility that we all have, to be no longer dependent on that catch-as-catch-can never definite idea of us waiting to maybe see something naughty passing, the advent of modern day downloads of adult video is completely arresting and oh-so-thrilling. No longer left to chance, or the embarrassment of having to actually go to a porn theatre or rent a tape from a crowded video store-all things the porn watcher had to do in the past-now the world comes to us.

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The Who Over The Twat

Posted by Coldpepper at 22 January 2012

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Porn starsSure, any true fan of sex videos would be able to list various stars, male and female as well as they could favorite titles of the movies, but how many of us really watch porn for who is in it? We might be led to a particular movie but would just as soon turn it off if the action is boring or repellant to our sensibilities. Even Tom Cruise can’t open a movie nobody wants to see!

These days the really popular porn stars are signed to exclusive contracts at big porn studios. These contract stars, as they are called, are brand names in the porn field, are given big salaries, treated like royalty and usually begin to demand only certain costars as well as directors and while they can court popular websites their fans flock to or see lines forming round their convention appearances, really they are only the dressing to the action.

Porn is about fucking, pure and simple. People watch sex videos for the various ways porn stars get into what they get into, the copious body fluids that fall and spray and for all the sex they wish they could be having in that way…not to mention to get a good eye-full of some naked perfect specimens. There are so many great looking, completely augmented porn stars out there that we can pretty much enjoy looking at so many people, we don’t need to have a favorite and even if we do, there will be another soon-to-be favorite coming down the pike soon, so we need not worry.

Porn stars are important, big budget sex videos do entice and delight us and kinky paper-thin plot lines can be fun in a dirty movie time and again. But for the most part we are all watching porn for the gonzo action, we want to imagine ourselves the recipients of all that fucking and sucking and we want to get away from our staid sex lives even for just a few moments to imagine how the other more beautiful halves live.

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It’s Just Like Any Online Dating

Posted by Coldpepper at 16 January 2012

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There are probably a lot of couples out there who are curious and would be very interested in learning more about swinging. Like any search for free sex, the internet has plenty of ways to get more information about swinging including the hazards, dangers and what traits couples should and shouldn’t have in order to be successful at swinging. Many people understand the basic concepts of swinging, but they have no idea how to find other couples, how to find events or what the etiquette is at social events and parties.

Swingers

Luckily, there are swingers websites that operate very much like any dating or sex personals websites. People can search for local couples and some websites list local events. There are always private events as well, and once a couple starts getting acquainted and builds a good reputation, they will start getting invited to the private events and parties that require a more personal invitation and aren’t advertised online. Single seeking any kind of involvement in the swinging scene may have mixed experiences depending on gender. Single ladies are almost always welcome in any swingers group. There is usually quite a shortage of available single ladies for threesomes and beyond. Usually in the swinging community, bi-sexual women are very welcome. Bi-sexual men are often another story. For some odd reason swingers seem like open-minded people but they aren’t always open-minded when it comes to male homosexual experiences.

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A lot of groups forbid male bi-sexual activity at the majority of their events and only allow it at specific parties where it is expressly advertised in advance. Many swinger’s groups are also not particularly welcoming to single men and some forbid them from joining. Single men can sometimes be a problem in this type of setting, especially if they are a little overzealous in their enthusiasm for having sex with the attached ladies. The attached men don’t want any additional competition for the single ladies, and single men would be just that.

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Love Is Hard, Porn Is Easy

Posted by Coldpepper at 29 December 2011

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As long as there are men looking for sex and love, porn sites will still be in business. Men all over the world complain about not getting results on dating websites. They often say that they send out literally hundreds of introductory e-mails to women without getting a single response back. It seems awfully rude, but men need to understand that women get bombarded with ridiculous or rude e-mails that they find very offensive.

Very often when they try to be polite and send out a “no thank you” e-mail, they then receive really nasty e-mails in return. After a few of those, many women just don’t bother to answer at all. Believe it or not, most women are feeling just as disheartened as the guys but for very different reasons. If both genders would try to be a little more understanding of each other, there would probably be a lot less hurt feelings. There are a lot of both genders looking for love, and online dating can be difficult. People tend to be pickier online than they would be in person. Being a little more open-minded could pay off for everyone involved. People make a lot of mistakes online too and end up turning off the very people they’d like to turn on.

A few simple tweaks to a person’s technique could make a huge difference in getting replies and then dates and they aren’t difficult changes to make. Put up nice photos and take out any sexy nude shots. Take all references to sex out of the profile text, unless it’s something that is really a non-negotiable issue. If it’s something that cannot be compromised, it’s better to get fewer responses than to waste a lot of time on mismatches. Lastly, make sure the profile is written with proper grammar. Skip the text speak, and put some effort into the writing. This is a great start for attracting quality people that truly want to meet and date.

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It Keeps Getting Easier

Posted by Coldpepper at 20 December 2011

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People probably thought it was pretty amazing when they were able to walk into a store and purchase porn without fear for the first time. Fast forward that several years, and people were probably amazed that they were able to receive catalogs at home describing the porn and were able to write a check and order whatever they wanted and have it delivered right to their house. The evolution continues with credit cards and the ability to order porn on the telephone. Soon overnight shipping became available and people were suddenly able to order their porn by telephone, and if ordered before a certain time it could actually be delivered the very next day, all without ever leaving the house.

Once computers were in nearly every home, the shopping for porn, sex toys and anything sexual became even easier. It was no longer necessary to even talk to a person on the phone. Shopping for porn can be done in our underwear on our couch without anyone on earth even knowing about it. We can download directly to our hard drive or stream from our computers, so delivery is no longer even necessary.

Who would have thought anything like this would be possible a hundred or so years ago? Even more amazing is that now we can even watch porn on our phones. Anyone with a smart phone can find porn that will work on their phone. We can be anywhere on earth doing absolutely anything and watching or downloading porn on our phones. In fact, we could film sex on our phones and upload it to any number of websites. This may be kind of sacrilegious, very sacrilegious actually, but a person who really wanted to could most likely download porn to their phone while in church using 3G or 4G. We literally have access to porn at all times and in all places at this point, and let’s face it – that’s a pretty damn good accomplishment for mankind.

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Be Smart To Get Women

Posted by Coldpepper at 2 December 2011

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Even when guys are looking for free sex, they still have a lot of competition and need to stand out in the crowd a bit in order to get noticed and get the girl. Men far outnumber women on the sex personals sites, and the ladies know it. They can afford to be choosey, because every time they log onto the site they probably get bombarded by mail and chat requests. Most of the men that contact them will be people that they’re not interested in or who live too far Get sexaway, but the odds are that women will be able to find someone much more easily than men can, and they know it. So what can a guy do to get noticed?

First, it’s really important to fill out the profile and provide a little bit of information to spark the interest the ladies. Even on a sex site, don’t just talk about sex. Talk a little bit about interests or hobbies – show some intelligence and a well-rounded life. Even ladies who are also only looking for sex will want a man who has a life so she won’t have to worry about him becoming overly attached to her. A couple of good photos are also really important.

Don’t lead with a cock shot though. It’s okay to put one in the profile, but don’t make it the main photo. If it’s not possible to post a face shot, be creative – show a full body shot with a great background, wear a hat or turn the face away from the camera. With photos take in the house, be careful not to show anything that might identify the specific location and make sure the background is clean and neat and doesn’t have another woman in it. Send a first e-mail that is polite and doesn’t jump right into sex talk.

An introductory e-mail should intrigue and shouldn’t mention her looks, but should mention something interesting in her profile to get her attention.

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Silly Sex Toys

Posted by Coldpepper at 28 November 2011

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Sex toysWatching porn stars using sex toys in XXX videos can give people a lot of great ideas for things to try at home in their own relationships. There are a lot of things that may seem kind of dumb at first glance, but when we see them used and how they are used, we realize that there may be some great uses for these items. For instance, a lot of people, especially kinky people, tend to laugh at things like warming lotions and oils.

It can seem awfully mundane to someone who has experienced fire play. People not familiar with sensation play may not realize how much fun it can be to play with varying temperatures, and how much of a turn on it can be to wake up someone’s skin and nerve endings by playing with different temperatures. The heating lotions, oils and lubes can be a great way to experiment a little with temperature play. Using one’s imagination with some ice, cold glass toys, cold metal toys and lotions and oils that heat up pretty well can make for a rather memorable encounter. Something that seems silly or mundane like edible body paints can be a great way to tease a restrained and blindfolded partner. Using a variety of brushes for a lot of different sensations and working slowly to write and lick off the paints can drive the other person completely wild with desire. It would be possible to bring a partner dangerously close to climax and then back off, leaving them writhing and begging to be brought to orgasm. What could be more fun than that?

Before writing something off as silly, watch some porn flicks featuring that activity and get some ideas of how to use some of these sex toys in different ways before deciding that it simply wouldn’t be of interest or wouldn’t be erotic enough. There are a lot of great ways to create a sexy environment and drive a partner wild, and nothing should be written off that quickly.

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Pogo Stick Sex

Posted by Coldpepper at 14 November 2011

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It’s funny sometimes to watch what goes on in porn movies, especially older ones. Women would get on top and bounce up and down like they were on a pogo stick. It still happens sometimes in movies that are made more recently. In real life, most women who enjoy getting on top would never consider bouncing up and down because it kind of defeats the purpose of being on top to begin with.

Many women enjoy being on top because it gives them a lot more clitoral stimulation, and they have a lot more control over that stimulation. Because of that, being on top can give women much more powerful orgasms. For women who don’t have vaginal orgasms, a position that enables them to have contact and stimulation on their clit allows them to have orgasms during intercourse when normally, in other positions, they may not be able to achieve that. Unlike in many porn films, women will tend to slide back and forth on a guys cock, which effectively rubs her clit against his body. If he’s got pubic hair and isn’t shaved, the pubic hair can give her some additional stimulation. In addition, sliding against the guys cock in just the right way can provide g-spot stimulation from internal contact with the head of his cock, and that can heighten pleasure and orgasm for a lot of ladies.

Some women also enjoy having more control over the thrusting and the depth of the thrusting, so they prefer being on top in order to have that control. There’s a variety of reasons for this – better control over vaginal orgasms, the ability to keep the guy’s cock from going too deep or making sure it does go very deep, and having more control over the rhythm. Some women simply like taking a more dominant role in bed once in a while and like to be on top for that reason. No matter what the reason, guys should just sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Chick Porn

Posted by Coldpepper at 10 November 2011

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Some women don’t really enjoy porn all that much, but there are a few non-porn movies that that men and women can both enjoy. The big plus is that women find them romantic and sexy, and therefore the movies will put a lot of ladies in the mood for a night of hot sex.

Since these movies are pretty much chick flicks, although not completely horrendous types of chick flicks, most boyfriends and husbands will score huge points with his lady for suggesting them or even better – ordering it up on Netflix and surprising her with a romantic movie night. It’s practically a guarantee of sex for any guy if he’s smart.

One of the best choices for a chick flick that a guy can live through is When Harry Met Sally. An oldie but goodie, it’s funny and not too terribly sappy, and features a really average guy getting the cute girl, which makes most men feel pretty good too. It also has pretty frank dialog about sex and friendships with the opposite sex, and with Billy Crystal as the love interest, it can’t help but be funny. Another oldie is Desperately Seeking Susan. It’s not a great movie, but it does feature a very young Madonna running around in slutty outfits so there isn’t much not to like. Blue Crush gives off more than enough female empowerment vibe to make the lady happy, but since it’s a movie about young female surfers there are more than enough nubile young bodies running around in bikinis to make any guy happy.

Not only will this make the lady happy, she’ll brag to all her friends about what a great guy she’s got, so there’s a night of hot sex and the opportunity to become the envy of all of her girlfriends. Schwing! It’s a great opportunity to make everybody happy, and any chick flick that isn’t unbearable for the guy will work. Pick one with a hot actress and enjoy.

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