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Posted by Coldpepper at 1 October 2011

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There are still some people who will go to great lengths just to get as much free Sex as they can and doing as little work for it as possible. Some of these people praise the benefits of communal living states just so they can have access to Sex without the bother of any kind of commitment or exclusionary relationships. They talk about how it’s better for people to live closely together and breaking the bonds of traditional living ideas. They act as if they are ground breaking and forward looking and peaceful. They love to play up the peace and good will when they could truly care less. They just want access to their own private stable of willing pussy that will give up the ass at the drop of a hat. These people are con artists ans shysters who truly don’t want to work for anything or do anything the right way. It’s too hard for them and requires too much personal responsibility.

So they look for the weak minded, they look for the lost and they look for starry eyed and act like saviors and prophets. They will even go so far as to use various religious trappings to attract people all in the name of peace and enlightenment. Often times upon very cursory inspection these alleged belief systems simply fall apart. They hold no more religious value than a belief in the tooth fairy. That doesn’t stop them from trying however and they will ruthlessly use a person’s desire for help and guidance to get them where they want them. More often than not these people are also very adept at squeezing money from their followers in the name of communal good. The problem is that this money for the communal good seems to end up in that leaders bank account, that they haven’t told anyone about.

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Posted by Coldpepper at 3 September 2011

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Attending a sex party is a wonderful opportunity to find easy and free sex, but it is important to know how to behave and what the rules are. Of course those rules will vary from environment to environment. Not all sexual subcultures are the same and what works in one is not going to work in another. What is acceptable at swingers’ party for example will not work at a queer sex party or a kinky fetish event, and the same applies vice versa going back the other way as well. We always want to be welcomed into any community we try to join so we hope that it will be the same when we attend a sexy party for the first time. Take time to talk to another member of the group if possible, or the host or hostess to learn what the rules are for that particular environment.

One important rule is not to treat the other people at the party as if they were porn stars. They are here just like us seeking some fun thrills and maybe a new lover, or at least an audience for when they fuck their regular one. When sharing and enjoying an environment like this, it is important to note that masturbation is not always welcomed. In particular, a single guy masturbating may be considered creepy in many communities and therefore it may need to be avoided. In others this may be embraced, for example it used to be typical when people played around in porn theaters in gang bangs and other group fucking situations.

Most parties will have an expectation of cleanliness and safer sex practices. After using a shared area such as sex furniture or a bed it is a good idea to clean up. New sheets may be provided to put down, but take time to wipe off any fluids. Usually with hard surfaced furniture like dungeon furniture, wet wipes will be provided to disinfect the surface and one will be expected to use them after recovering from play.

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Posted by Coldpepper at 20 July 2011

Category: Porn, Safe sex, Sex

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Sex is a thrill that almost every human being seeks out. All of us want to cum and enjoy lots of good pleasure. Unfortunately there are some real risks to sexual behavior in the form of sexually transmitted diseases. Although these diseases have a wide variety of effects, some deadly, some merely a nuisance, all are capable of being transmitted through unprotected penis in vagina intercourse as well as anal sex. Unfortunately, safer sex is still not the norm in any form of Porn or Adult video,. The exception is found in gay Sex videos, where unprotected sex is considered horrifying to see unless practiced among a genuine, real world couple in the movie.

Why say safer sex and not safe sex? Short of celibacy and masturbation alone, no sexual activity is completely, 100% safe. If done improperly, even a hand job could theoretically result in disease transmission if one was careless what one did with that hand afterwards, such as touching mucous membranes, the eyes or one’s own genitalia before cleaning the sexual fluids off of it. Still, there are many ways one can mitigate the risks and enjoy a lot of pleasure and Orgasm while having the piece of mind to know one isn’t going to get something awful.

It helps to get tested frequently. Most communities have a facility offering free or very inexpensive tests for the most dangerous diseases. Other illnesses which are mostly seen as a nuisance, not a true health risk — the Herpes simplex virus is an example — require more expensive elective testing. Most doctors by default will only test for HIV, Chlamydia, Syphilis and Gonorrhea. It is up to one to decide what is worthwhile to test for.

Make sure to always use barriers when sexual fluids are being encountered. Latex or polyisoprene condoms are great for penetration and oral sex. Dental dams can be used for cunnilingus.

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