Keeping oneself fit and healthy makes one feel more attractive and resilient, but really being able to grab any clothes on a moment’s notice, meet-up with a physical activity or down with some in bed stamina, really does serve a guy or gal greatly on the dating scene. Less how we look then how we feel really informs how we’ll do from the moment will fill in an on-line profile about ourselves to when or if we even want to meet a potential lover or playmate. And it’s for us to decide how to be the best we want to be.

Plenty of BBW’s are physically fit and though not skinny model-type girls, can beat anyone in a race or give more than their all when fucking, rolling, sucking and cumming. There are a lot of guys with six- packs who spend way too much time grooming themselves and not opening a door for a lady on a date. Our bodies are best functional physically fit but there are different definitions and different looks to being fit and knowing how to use what we have and not becoming so obsessed with trying to look our best that looking our best is all that matters.

So too do descriptions of physical attractiveness vary when searching through computer-based profiles or even when viewing someone’s picture on a social network site. Judging a book by its cover only might see you only enjoying that cover. Our bodies can be beautifully buffed but if we are not interested in being any one particular place, whether on a date, chatting in a single’s chat room or riding the rapids down some river we are more than physically suited to do, we won’t get the best from being our best.

And if we don’t feel comfortable in our own skin we will constantly be looking to get out of it, by various substance abuses, breast, booty or even cock augmentation or indulging in diversions that can be dangerous. Worst of all we might begin to put the opinion of our physical attractiveness in the hands of the people we want to attract search to be ever bustier, more muscular, skinnier or even heavier contingent upon what our lover likes. We cannot mold ourselves to be a better person, a craftier lover or even a more interesting date over how we look and certainly not by how someone else things we should appear. Good health is important to the individual but the individual must determine what good heath is and how to achieve it for themselves.