From a guy’s standpoint, there doesn’t really seem to be such a thing a free sex. Men usually end up feeling like they somehow end up paying for it in one way or another. Nice dinners in restaurants, dates, condoms, errands, housework, home repair – you name it, most nice guys do end up paying for sex in some way or another. That’s not to say that it’s unfair for that to happen. Couples should look after each other and be there for each other when dating or in a relationship. There should be no monetary accounting taken, but things should kind of even out between all the different ways that we can do nice things for each other or provide the essentials for a date or help each other out.
Men sometimes don’t stop and think about the value of what a woman does for them. He sees that he pays for dinner and drinks and that he pays for most things when they go out as a couple. If the lady cooks dinners sometimes or breakfasts after a sleep-over date, she’s contributing. Every meal she cooks is a meal he doesn’t have to pay for. When a woman stocks her refrigerator with her man’s favorite drinks, soda or snacks, she’s providing value to the relationship by making him as comfortable as possible in her home. Just because a guy doesn’t see the lady take out her wallet and pay doesn’t mean it isn’t happening in some way.
Every time the lady buys some new lingerie to impress and inspire her man, she’s contributing her finances to the good of the relationship. While a man may pay for condoms, a lot of ladies also pay for birth control which wasn’t always covered by health insurance plans in the past. So guys, before feeling as though it’s a one way street, stop and think about all the things the lady does to be helpful to the relationship and stop taking those things for granted.
